WORDS - "Choose Carefully Live Happily"

Words seem like very simple things, but if we think really and see carefully then we will come to know about some serious reality. Words are the part of any sentence; any phrase any line and any paragraph. They are the one who are responsible to make any line sensible or a complete nonsense. They are responsible to make any one understand what the other person is trying to say. Sometimes we don't think about what we are saying and what we are writing. How and where it will create an effect. If anything goes wrong then how bad it can be? What are the consequences of all these. Usually we don't think about all these questions. This is because we are not worried. Why? Because either we are not able to see the bigger picture or we don't want to and just want to be the way we are. But if we sit for some time and see and think and read what we are going to say before we actually say it, we will understand what we are saying and what it mean.
It's not east yo do all these things when we are already in some conversation. It can take more time to see, think and read all those words in your mind before you say it. I can totally understand, and honestly it will take time and it should take time as it is the process of learning. But it will pay you off one day for sure. Try to listen every conversation, what others are saying? Try to avoid direct argument with anyone, but yes if required then don't back off. Be strong and fight for your right, but ya make sure you are not being rude or hurting anyone's feeling or anything like that. Because most of the time we say things which we don't mean at all and in that conversation we sometimes use such words which we can't take back. So avoid such things and make sure you are doing that. 

Always try to be polite and generous enough to others so that they will see your point, and if you are making any mistake or fault by using some wrong words, they won't bother that much. But yes keep one thing in mind you should repeat this on daily/ regular basis. There are many out there who are just waiting for one chance to pull you down on any level and in any way. But there are very less people who are actually trying to help you. If they are telling you something then listen to it. May be it can be way too much important then you think it is. May be you will realize this some other day.

Always listen to everyone, doesn't matter if that person is your well-wisher or your enemy. If he is your enemy try to concentrate more, because they all will say at least one line which can be important for you. Important in career, important in future, or may be important in family.

Being careful is not at all harmful in-fact it will always help you. You don't need to say things just for the sake of it. You don't need to answer anything if you are not sure about it. You don't need to jump into any conversation because you were feeling left out. Trying to mix up with others is a really good thought, but make sure that you are not becoming a burden to them.

Talk when you feel like talking but be mature, polite & humble enough so that other will listen to you. There are lots of people who are always ready to talk but there are very less who are really ready to hear you out. So try to catch the attention of those who are ready to listen, because they are the one who will really listen and will give their comments honestly. Why? Because they are not dying to hear you, they are there because they feel like you are a good speaker. 

Always create a personality of a person who is a good listener first, then a talker/ speaker. There are many out there who blabber all the time so hope you will think about it and will not turn out like one of them. Personally I think words have their own value, value which we can't measure or even think about. There are people who say less and that means a lot and there are others who says/ talks a lot but that means nothing.

"Be the one on which everyone can count, don't be the one who counts on everyone."