Monday, April 26, 2010

Worship or showoff

12/04/2010

This feeling from which I came across today was really very disgusting. Today I went to play snooker with my elder brother. It’s really nice having fun with your elder brother in your home town. We were cherishing the moments and filling our hearts with some astonishing memories. We had a very great game, I mean I lost by 5-1 but still it was nice (lol). On the way back to home we took a shortcut and we were walking on the streets of “DANAOLI”. It was really very hard to walk when the sun was on his peak, so we decided to take another shortcut for our way back to home. I don’t know it was the wise decision or the worst, but it was really hard to believe which I am going to describe in this post. So please guys if you are also doing this or in any case you are following these kind of traditions, then please I am begging you “ STOP DOING THIS “.
Ok here is the main part of that pathetic moment. As you all know that we took one more short cut for our way back to home. On the next very small street, I saw one kid was cleaning the small temple and washing all the tiles and also the other stuff of that temple. At that moment I was really amazed when I saw, that little boy was seriously doing that job with all his faith and trust. There wasn’t any sign of cheat or some manipulation in his mind or in his heart. So I started talking about that boy with my brother. That boy was doing this with all his pure heart and faith which I think amazed us, but on the very second step on that street I found a very strange thing. Someone literally covered a stone with some puja stuff like sinduur (chola ) and some other things which we use to dress up our Gods. I don’t know who did this but it was really unexpected from any human being.
Guys, you won’t believe me but on that corner GOD was placed on the road on the edge of the drainage pipe which was really pathetic. I really don’t expect this from anyone. This was really very harsh moment for me, and I am still very disappointed with the person who is responsible for this. I don’t understand the reason behind creating a new God or something like that. If we still seriously want to worship that stone as a GOD then please don’t let them down from their position of god. And please guys please just don’t treat them as a normal stone please. If that guy who ever did this really wanted to worship or want to pray then why can’t he/she go that temple which is on the few steps? It wasn’t really that far from the place where that boy was working. He/she can easily go to that place and can worship or can do whateverhe/she wants, but the way he chose to show their worship was not proper.
I really don’t understand the reason behind all these kind of nonsense stuff. It is really disgusting and creates a very big question in my mind, what is the need of all this type of things? If we seriously want to worship then we can do it anywhere, in any case at any place. Whatever I saw today was really pathetic and was really unexpected. I know we all live in liberal country, but does it mean that we can hurt anyone’s trust and his faith in GOD? The thing which I saw today was really a matter of shame for us and especially for that person who is responsible for this. Why can’t we use our mind before doing these kinds of thing? It hurts when you see these types of foolishness around you. But it is a moment of shame because we all are responsible for this. So guys if you all doing this for just “show off” or you have any other reason valid or invalid, I am really begging you please stop it. This is not the thing to show off or to pretend. It is all about our trust and faith in GOD, and some how you are creating an offence to all of them. When I think about today’s incident then the only thing which came in my mind is we will have to create some priority for all of these kinds of things. We need some boundaries for this; otherwise no one will take care of it. Right now not yet a single person is taking this seriously which is kind of a sober matter for me because it is all about “GOD”, the word on which i have all my faith.
No one is saying to worship like this by creating your own statue of GOD, neither does god want that. Then why don’t you all understand this. It is not at all necessary to create your own or to do this kind of foolish things. Does it really seem nice or proper in any case or in any way? For one moment if we think that ok you created one statue of GOD then don’t you have any other place for that statue of GOD? I don’t know what to say now because it is not at all a matter for discussion, and I am not suppose to say anything on this. We are not this much stupid that we can’t understand the meaning of the word “GOD”. On every level of life we pray of him. We tell him our problems, and discuss everything with him. Then how can we do this to him? Is this the way are we going to pay him back for all his kindness and for his blessings on us? Then please “THINK 1000 times” before doing such kind of nonsense.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Life without Love

Life without Love

Love a delightful word which can easily bring twinkle in your eyes, and can give you that glow which will last forever in your life. We can not set any boundary or any priority for love. It is just a feeling which automatically comes according to situations and the conditions. It can easily change our way of thinking towards things. You can neither force anyone to love you, nor can you force yourself to love someone. Love is not just for the Husband-Wife or just for the Girlfriend-Boyfriend. It’s a pure feeling which we can have for any person in our life. I think there is no life without love, and we all have someone whom we can say or believe our love of life.

For some of us those can be our parents, some of us think about their GF or BF and some of us have their children. Sometimes we don’t even feel that how much that person is important to us, and it becomes very hard to understand and feel that how much we love to that person. But at some point of life, all of us get the answers for which we all were waiting for so long. For me my Mom, my Dad, and my BIG brother are my love and seriously I love them a lot. This is not just because they are my family; I mean off course they are my family but this is not the only reason to love them. The reason is, they support me in all the way and will always be there for me in all the possible or impossible conditions. Let me give you a brief introduction of my family. My dad is my inspiration of courage, positive attitude, and easy going nature and last but not the least SOLID personality. My mom she is just amazing, so sweet, and very kind and pure hearted. Very polite and will always help me in any way. She is just the mom everyone should have. Because I can tell her anything and she understands everything. She knows about me and nature more than me. She knows what is good for me and what is not. Her single smile or a big hug of can sort out all my big issues. And my Brother what can I say he is just “awesome”. He always was, is and I think always will be there for backing me up in all the good and the bad conditions. He makes fun of me a lot, but I like it. There are 100's of names dedicated and created by him for just me. Each and every day he calls me with some different name. I don’t know why, but he likes do that. There are so many times I saw that he did sacrifices for me. His first bicycle or bike, first cell phone, laptop and all of the things which he gave me with a big smile. All of these things he handed over to me, just like he bought all those things for me, and just was taking care of them for me to use on a correct time and moment. He knows very well that I like all of his stuff, right BRO? I love you ALL for all your sacrifices, and I always will.

Sorry folks for dragging you out of the track. So I just want to say that you should always believe in yourself and should always believe on the person whom you think you love. Because in any case, any certain situation of life that person will never let you down. Just keep in your mind “every relation pays off on a certain level of time and life according to the situation and the conditions”. It doesn’t mean that you should only love for this reason, because that will be called your selfishness and greedy nature. I think that none of you wanted to become a selfish person in the matter of love. Please guys don’t impure this pure word which creates a nice and healthy relationship. Life is too short so why not try to enjoy every single moment of life in a way we wanted to, but with a good and healthy relationship. Please don’t just fool around and waste your time for that person. Just take a good look around yourself, and if you still having some problem than just close your eyes and turn around you will surely find that person. That person is somewhere may be not that much near but still exist and you will meet him/her one day for sure. Because GOD never injustice to any person, whether that person has the faith in god or not. He just LOVES everyone, then why can’t we? We can also love everyone, I am not saying that try to be god.

Just the thing which I am trying to say is try to love everyone then you will see enormous change in your life and your way to looking things and your personality will surely get change. When you will come to know that somebody loves you and care for you, then you will feel so confident. You will feel at-least there is someone who loves you. You will always feel that there is someone who cares for you. So all my friends and my family members I just wanted to say if you already have that person, then you are so lucky. Try to not to lose that person ever, because true love and true feelings you can't have twice. You will have to be very lucky for that. But still have faith in you that you are one of the luckiest person in the world, that will boost your moral and confidence. And the others who are still waiting for that person to come or not getting the response for which they are looking for. Again I will say just give some more time and you will get the result. Because there is a perfect time for each and every thing and it’s better to let it happen on its own. If you will force it then you will have to take all the responsibility of all the pros and cons. You can't blame god for that any more, and please do not scold that person in your mind or even in your dream. This is not his/her fault; it is you who created this situation. So let the things happen on their perfect, so that everything will be balance and will be proper.

One more thing if you are looking for the love of life then please do not wait for the prefect one. I can assure one thing that no one – no one is perfect in this world. And if you are waiting for that Mr. Or miss. Perfect then you are wasting your time and fooling yourself. I can tell you one thing that, in this kind of process may be you will lose that one special person who was meant for you. Take a good look of yourself and think are you perfect in all the possible ways? Are you that Mr. or Miss. Perfect for which all of them are looking for? If you are so confidently thinking YES then you’re fooling yourself my dear. I don’t want to be rude here, but if you think that you are Mr. or Miss. Perfect then why are you still single? Have you ever thought about that? Do you have any good enough reason for this? Them why are you wasting your time and also doing all the things to lose that only person which is meant for you only. Please think twice before making any perception about anyone. Don’t try to judge anyone on without even knowing him/her, because this will not be fair with that person and will not at all helpful and good for you also. So please be calm, be cool and most of all be confident. And try to love all in any way. You will see a huge change in the numbers of people who will also start loving you. And you will surely feel important will feel something different which you have never felt before. We all need love and we are so addicted of it that we can’t even imagine our LIFE WITHOUT LOVE. At some certain level we all need this. I think Love can do the entire possible thing which can’t be done normally. Love can change life; it can create a new view of looking things. It can create a new life for some of us, and can make us feel so important in some ways. So try to love and always be happy, because a happy mind will always make right decisions.

“Happiness always looks small, when we hold it in our hands.
But when we learn to Share it, We realize how big and precious it is!.........“