काश मैं हवा का झोका होता

काश मैं  हवा का झोका होता
मदमस्त लहराता सब जगह घूम कर आता
कभी खुल के गता तो कभी गुनगुनाता
काश मैं हवा का झोका होता

कभी घुस्से में होता तो तूफ़ान बन जाता
कभी खुश होता तो भीनी सी हवा लाता
कभी बारिश के साथ लुका छुपी खेलता
कभी किसी की छत तो कभी किसी शेहेर में होता
काश मैं हवा का झोका होता

कभी सड़क पे गिरी पत्तियों से खेलता
कभी किसी ठहरे पानी में घुस जाता
कभी धुल भरी आंधी तो कभी शीतलता का एहसास दिलाता
काश मैं हवा का झोका होता

कभी गर्मी में ठण्ड का एहसास कराता
कभी ठिठुरते बदन को गर्मी दिलाता
बादल बारिश के साथ मिलके तूफान कहलाता
सूरज के साथ अगर रहता तो लू होजाता
काश मैं हवा का झोका होता

हर ख़ुशी हर गम का मेरे पास इलाज होता
मेरे एक हलके झोके का हर कोई मोहताज़ होता
मेरे घुस्से का सिर्फ मैं शिकार होता
काश मैं हवा का झोका होता
मदमस्त लहराता हर जगह घूम के आता
काश मैं हवा का झोका होता

WORDS - "Choose Carefully Live Happily"

Words seem like very simple things, but if we think really and see carefully then we will come to know about some serious reality. Words are the part of any sentence; any phrase any line and any paragraph. They are the one who are responsible to make any line sensible or a complete nonsense. They are responsible to make any one understand what the other person is trying to say. Sometimes we don't think about what we are saying and what we are writing. How and where it will create an effect. If anything goes wrong then how bad it can be? What are the consequences of all these. Usually we don't think about all these questions. This is because we are not worried. Why? Because either we are not able to see the bigger picture or we don't want to and just want to be the way we are. But if we sit for some time and see and think and read what we are going to say before we actually say it, we will understand what we are saying and what it mean.
It's not east yo do all these things when we are already in some conversation. It can take more time to see, think and read all those words in your mind before you say it. I can totally understand, and honestly it will take time and it should take time as it is the process of learning. But it will pay you off one day for sure. Try to listen every conversation, what others are saying? Try to avoid direct argument with anyone, but yes if required then don't back off. Be strong and fight for your right, but ya make sure you are not being rude or hurting anyone's feeling or anything like that. Because most of the time we say things which we don't mean at all and in that conversation we sometimes use such words which we can't take back. So avoid such things and make sure you are doing that. 

Always try to be polite and generous enough to others so that they will see your point, and if you are making any mistake or fault by using some wrong words, they won't bother that much. But yes keep one thing in mind you should repeat this on daily/ regular basis. There are many out there who are just waiting for one chance to pull you down on any level and in any way. But there are very less people who are actually trying to help you. If they are telling you something then listen to it. May be it can be way too much important then you think it is. May be you will realize this some other day.

Always listen to everyone, doesn't matter if that person is your well-wisher or your enemy. If he is your enemy try to concentrate more, because they all will say at least one line which can be important for you. Important in career, important in future, or may be important in family.

Being careful is not at all harmful in-fact it will always help you. You don't need to say things just for the sake of it. You don't need to answer anything if you are not sure about it. You don't need to jump into any conversation because you were feeling left out. Trying to mix up with others is a really good thought, but make sure that you are not becoming a burden to them.

Talk when you feel like talking but be mature, polite & humble enough so that other will listen to you. There are lots of people who are always ready to talk but there are very less who are really ready to hear you out. So try to catch the attention of those who are ready to listen, because they are the one who will really listen and will give their comments honestly. Why? Because they are not dying to hear you, they are there because they feel like you are a good speaker. 

Always create a personality of a person who is a good listener first, then a talker/ speaker. There are many out there who blabber all the time so hope you will think about it and will not turn out like one of them. Personally I think words have their own value, value which we can't measure or even think about. There are people who say less and that means a lot and there are others who says/ talks a lot but that means nothing.

"Be the one on which everyone can count, don't be the one who counts on everyone."

Happy Birth Day BHAii ( Daa )

एक शब्द एक अल्फाज़, जो है दिल के बहुत पास,
एक हल्का सा प्यारा सा कोई एहसास
है मेरे लिए जो सच में बहुत ही खास.....

वो डांट वो फटकार, वो लडाइयां और हाकी की मार
है घुस्से का भंडार, पर करता मुझसे बहुत प्यार
मेरी सारी गलतियों को माफ़ करता हर बार
ऐसा है मेरा भाई, मेरे जीवन का तीसरा प्यार.....

वो छेड़ना और परेशां करना, रखना मेरे कई सारे नाम
उठाता मेरे सारे नखरे और सारे झंझट तमाम
हमेशा हूँ उसके लिए खास, कभी ना होऊंगा आम (  not mango aam = common, bcz in another words i would love to be AAM= mango for him, HE loves mango a llootttt. Right dada )
वो प्यार से उसका हर बार कहना तू साला झंडू बाम.....


मेरी अच्छाई मेरी बुराई सब है उसके लीये सामान
ना मेरा उसके बिना और न उसका मेरे बिना चले कोई काम
वो अगर साथ हो तो लगे सब कुछ आसान
बस हर बार असा लगे जैसे जिन्दगी है आराम ...

नए नए तरीके से करना उसको परेशान
उलटे सीधे काम करके करना उसको हैरान
first fight, first bike या करना हो थोड़े cash का इंतज़ाम  ;)
i knw he'll be there, bcz उसको अच लगता है ये काम  ( i think ;) )

जो रहता है हर पल एक छत्र छाया के सामान
है तो दादा पर रखा है छोटे पापा उसका नाम
घर का वो मुखिया करे दादा जी जैसे काम
रहेगा हर पल साथ मेरे पूरी जिंदगी तमाम
रहता है उसका पहरा चाहे सुबह हो या शाम



This one is for you DAA... ( Wish you a very happy birth day )

यादें

यादें


कभी अच्छी तो कभी बुरी
कभी पूरी तो कभी अधूरी
कभी खट्टी तो कभी मीठी
कभी लगे मिर्ची से भी तीखी

इन यादों में है जैसे जीवन ये सारा
जैसे सभी कश्तियों का कोई अपना किनारा
कभी लगे मनो लाचार सा कोई बेचारा
कभी लगे जैसे कोई पंछी आवारा

रह रह कर आती और बड़ा सताती
कभी ख़ुशी से तो कभी गम से ऑंखें भीगा जाती
चुपके से आकर दिल में उथल पुथल मचाती
कोई पाती अपनी मंज़िल तो कोई अधूरी रह जाती

इन यादों में जैसे है ये जीवन समाया
लगे कड़कती धुप में जैसे ठंडी सी कोई छाया
कभी गुम सुम सी मासूम सी लगती है वो
कभी लगे मानो पुरे जीवन की परिछाया


काश इन यादों को फिर से जी सकते
गलतियों को सुधर कर खुशियों को लिए चलते
गमो को भुला कर दिल खोल कर हसते
ढेरो हसीन पालो से नयी यादों को रचते
काश इन यादों को फिर से जी सकते

Suicide - Solution or Problem?

It feels like now that there is not a single day when I haven't heard or saw or read about any death or any misfortune  in any family or in anyone’s life. Someone is getting shot, some other person is drowning, getting killed in an accident and trust me the worst part is suicide. Every now and then I am reading about suicides. It seems like it has become some kind of trend or a thing to us. Sometimes I feel like we don’t think before we do such thing?

Failure in love, not good enough marks, family problems, extra marital affairs, after getting dumped, not getting any job, not getting selected in some BIG SHOT MBA/MBBS/BE college.

Get over it boss. Think twice thrice and still you are feeling the same u deserve a nice slap on ur face.

Are you nuts that u r choosing this option to solve other problems which itself is a problem. Then how can it solve other problems?

Worst and one of the biggest bul***** reason "Ok there is nothing to do in my life, I am getting bored CHLAO SUICIDE karte hai..!!!!!  

I don’t care if you do or do not think about yourself, think about others who are related to you or dependent on you. Think about them who really wanted to live but did not get the chance to live. Think about them who were in those all spots where they do not deserve to be n got killed/murdered or ran over by some bus or some A********** drunk driver. Think about those family as they are still waiting for them and think that someday some fine day the person who is no more will come back from that main door and will say HIIIIII.......

Think about that Mother who gave birth to that child who is now no more just bcz of some stupid person or may be because of some planned murder. Think about that lady who does not feel like getting ready n dressing up nicely for her hubby. Think about those kids who will not get another chance to love and be loved any more.

Do you really think that this will solve everything? This the final and only solution for all of your problems? This will make everyone else happy who right are not happy with you or disappointed?

Now think about this also as they will not get another chance to SCOLD you, to shout on you, to be mad on you. Why because you the B***** h***l are not there now.. Surprised..???? may I ask why.??? you only chose this right.? you wanted to do it am I correct.? you have only decided that KI HAANN YAHI SAHI HAI correct me if I am wrong which you can't because I  am not...

I am not here to tell you how to solve your problems. The only sole reason behind this post is to not to create more problems in some one Else's life. Because the moment you do such stupid things thousand of problems fall onto your family. And now you are not there to take care of that. WOOOWWWW what a nice thing you did. Such a brave thought and deed right.?

It takes a lot of courage to do such things I understand and it is not easy for you also. There must me many of things going on in your mind. I am very much sure you know all these things which I am saying/writing here.

But think thousands of times are you really sure there is no other way and no other solution for your problem?

Are you really sure you have explored all the areas and have tried every single possible and impossible way to  sort that out? Because I don’t think so.... Trust me there is always a way to get out of any mess, its just depends on the way you look at those things.

Love Life- boss there are plenty of other girls and boys EXPLORE them. For sure you will get one for whom you were waiting for. In some nice words the one which is meant for you and only you.

Family crisis - Work it out. talk it out. Discuss things. Try to share and listen. Share everything if possible. That will build up some other kind of bonding in your relation.

Failure in Exam - So what? Big deal if you are not getting selected in some big shot university or something.? Is it wort your life? will your parents be happy that yaahhh my KID was not able to selected in BLAHH BLAHH institute so he committed suicide and I am happy now.? Do you really thing it will be like this? They will hate themselves that they put you in such a situation trust me. They will always feel that they were the reason behind all of this. Don’t do it to your parents bud. There are so many other institutes and colleges and all where you can get nice education. The only thing which matters is education not the Institute believe me. I have done my BE from MPCT some of you have not even heard about it. So what I don’t care at all I am happy living my life having fun. I have gone through that phase but I m proud enough to say that I did not chosse this and will never do that.

Not getting job - HELLLOOOO..... That is not even a reason. Search again change the criteria of your search, make a good resume, prepare your self for the interview nicely, don’t screw up in the interview, be confident. I can go on and on and on about all these things. Why? because it is really a shitty excuse to do such thing which is going to cost a lot a real lot more then you think and know.

Last but not the least and real shame full reason - there is nothing good in your life and you don’t know what to do with it.. You have no idea and getting bored.... F*** O**. I think you don’t even deserve to live. You don't deserve to have this life as you have decided to shit on it. So sorry  but I mean and will say it all the time. You don’t deserve this.

There is a saying " We realize the value of anything when its gone" - very true. But here you won’t get a chance to realize this as you will not be there. Now who will face this your friends and family, mainly your family? who will have to answer so many questions to POLICE to SOCIETY to OTHERS whom they don't even know. When they will see your TORN body. How nice it will look right.?

Don’t do it boss. Please don't do it. There are plenty of other ways to solve your problem. There are many of other reasons to live More than the reasons which you have to die. There are many of us count on you, like you, love you. There are many of us who are happy to see you happy.  So if you reading it and having any such  thought of  doing this shitty thing please give me a call or write me. I am here to listen to talk to work out things to make sure that you are also one important person in this world. You are valuable to so many of us. Will help you to show you so many other reasons to live rather than choosing some stupid reason to end this life.

Think as many of times you want. Think for your entire life. Think about all those good things which u had, still have and for sure will also have in future only if you live. Think about all those smiles which are related to you. Think about those smiles again which will not be there any more ones you do this.

So please THINK before you BLINK.. And if still not getting answers of all of your questions, then think that those are really not meant to be answered. Few things should always be left unsaid. May be this belongs to that. So forget it and move on. Moving On is not easy so take it as a challenge and prove to others that you can do it. You can live it and live it like a king of your own world.

So here I will end this topic otherwise I will keep on going with some more reasons and some more examples with my lovely all time favorite lines -

"LIFE IS PRECIOUS GIFT SO LIVE IT DON’T LEAVE IT"

Who we are ...???

It’s not what we are it's who we are which makes the difference. Sometimes I think how it makes differences and changes and how can one say that this is what I’m and I’m proud of it. What we are sometimes comes as a legacy from our family, parents and close, but who we are is the form which only we build for our self. The base which can show what we think about others, what we think about the world, how we see it, what efforts we are giving and can give if needed to make some changes towards the world, towards the society and towards ourselves. It shows our way of thinking and handling stuff, dealing with problems.
                                  What we are sometimes comes as heredity that oh that person is his/her son/daughter. It can be our surname, our identity. It can be anything from our looks, our expressions, our gesture and all, but who we are totally comes from inside us. One’s behavior cannot be same as the others. May be I look like my Dad and yes in some ways I behave like him sometimes but there are many of things in which I’m totally different from my Dad. It can be bad or good doesn't matter, the point is one cannot be the Xerox copy of any other individual in this world. We all carry our different and individual personality. So please go ahead and explore the other world. Do not just hold on to the stuff which is coming from what you are. Don’t just think about your name, cast creed. Because if we think little deep then we can see that what we are will always be there if we do good or bad, but who we are will not be the same. It will change not just you but also your outlook and your way of thinking which can create a huge difference. It can change your perception. It is the only thing which we earn on our own and cannot be given or earned by anyone else for us. So please work on who/how we are and that means in good way to help people, to help society, to help your family and at the end if something is left in you then to help yourself.